Why Do We “Think” The Guy With The Quickest Answer Is The “Smartest”? —- When In Fact He ALMOST ALWAYS Is The Most WRONG. (Just because it “sounds good” doesn’t mean it “is good”).
Why is it that very intelligent people , the few who actually read and think can read “deep stuff” that really makes them “think” and “they understand it” (they say) YET when they have the same “pictures” or situations in “real life” right in front of them & they go back to their only looking at the one side and closing their eyes, ears & minds to “what they have known or thought and not only disregard what is said BUT actually start to make arguments AGAINST the person trying to help and who actually agrees with their comments BUT just offers “stuff to think about” that was never before “brought to mind”?
In this example: someone listened to a couple tell of why they were not married, lived together for over 10 years and it was fine with them.
The person trying to just help make people aware of “little legalities” that could ruin many lives and their life work if they are not aware and take care of them BEFORE a situation comes up that Rocks Their World in TERRIBLE WAYS.
Now, the “respondents never comment on or say “thanks” for the valuable info” BUT jump onto that trying to be helpful person with comments like “are you Dr. Phil?”, or “he is such a geek” or just argue the point FOR Living Together period.
In other words, the helping person DID NOT Say Even 1 word AGAINST “living together” BUT from past experiences of seeing 100s of people’s & family’s lives ruined BECAUSE THEY NEVER BOTHERED to “write up wills, or healthcare proxies, or other LEGAL papers to PROTECT & Give ANY POWER or Authority To Their Loved Ones.
Yes —- homes are taken everyday by far attached “relatives” and the “mate” of the other is TOSSED OUT with NO Possessions BECAUSE of NO LEGAL RIGHT To The HOME or Property EVEN IF THEY PAID DIRECTLY FOR IT. ——
I always say “Those that criticize & “make fun of” others simply saying more than “that’s nice” are disdained by those Who Actually KNOW THE LEAST & are MOST PRONE To Having this happen to them. But THEN They Are The FIRST to Say “BUT I Didn’t Know! “No One Told Me That!” or “That’s Not Fair!”.
Those that jump the quickest with smart ass comments are those that Know the Least & End Up Burdening Everyone Else With “Their Troubles That Were NOT Their Fault” (or so they say).
Isn’t it about time to THANK THOSE WHO BOTHER To Take The Time, Make The Effort & Give FREELY (no $$$ like the attorney will take AFTER it is TOO LATE) , yes LISTEN, THANK & ASK FOR MORE HELP & WANT TO KNOW EVEN MORE?
I welcome all your thoughts and comments as “otherwise I guess it means that it is fine for Dictators to Imprison, Beat, Torture, and TAKE All from anyone too. It means that we should “throw out the Golden Rule”, the 10 Commandments, The Bible, Koran, Teachings of Buddha, Gandhi, Mother Teresa, YOUR PARENTS & Grandparents and “just do what you want”, caring for no one, EVER!
Guess it means it is OK to live and UN EVOLVE to LOWER than the rest of the animals around us. Planet of The Apes? “Doggie Does In The Pres”, & “Hitler Is Good”? Seems society thinks so as they “live it”.
My dogs & yours know more and evolve more than most people. I study them “watching with keen eyes, listening to sounds and words, and learning and changing almost daily as they grow each day. Our 8 year old keeps evolving as do our 3 year old dogs. They get wiser, and do things differently as they grow their minds & souls Yet People Stay The Same.
Just because one reads and thinks something is “deep, heavy & beautiful” Does NOT Mean They Understand It!