Each and every time you “do anything”, STOP & THINK BEFORE Doing It!
THEN ADD This One Simple Process To All You Do Forever On:
——ASK YOURSELF : “WHY”
This One Thing Will Forever Change the way you think, what you do, how you live ——– (Most NEVER DO THIS & End Up With Miserable Lives, Wasting Time, Resources, Their Health, Their Minds, Bodies & Souls ——– That is a True TRAGEDY Indeed for us all!!!
—— Now HOW To Incorporate This “WHY” into daily living:
A few examples begin this relearning “How To THINK & USE YOUR MIND, maybe for the first time or since you were a child who THEN used it naturally—-
Before you go to work ask yourself “Why”. Why do you go, why do you “go there”, why you do that type of job, why you must go. —–
THEN ASK “Why” AGAIN to each of YOUR ANSWERS; Example might be to Why You Go is “To Be Paid $$$ To Live”. Sounds like a GREAT ANSWER (maybe). Now the Next Question “WHY Do You Work For $$$ Doing That , and There”. Answer might be “Because It PAYS THE MOST”. Sounds good, MAYBE? Now WHY Do You “Need To Make The Most Money You Can”? —– Answer might be: Because “The More I Make, The Better My Family Lives”. Sounds GREAT (maybe)!
Next: “WHY” Is Your Life BETTER With MORE $$$?” More Time With Family? More “Stuff You Can Buy”, More Food, Vacation, Clothes, Cars, Toys?
NEXT: “WHY” Do They Make You Happier? Healthier? Smarter? More Loving?, More Caring? A better Parent?
A Few More “Why’s” in this simple example: Are you & your family Happier REALLY , or are You & the Family MORE STRESSED? Are You Healthier Eating Out (with all the extra sugars, calories, additives, carbohydrates – not to forget: More Cost to Now Make You Work MORE – Longer, Harder???? Are You and the family “communicating more”? really talking about their day, their feelings, their thoughts, their hopes, dreams? Do you KNOW your spouse, and kids BETTER When you eat out in a busy setting being distracted by the decor the other people, the noise, the music, the TV screens that most every place has tons of?
Now, since you just spent more $$$ and Must Work More; Do you spend more or less time with the family?
Did you discuss NOT JUST ONLY about “little nothings” like “getting more stuff”, o you or your kids even understand about “Making Your Money Work For You” of “You Just Work For Money”? —- Do you even understand what these words mean? Do your kids and spouse?
WHY???? the big house, the fancy car, the clothes (shoes, dresses, purses, rings, jewelry, ties, shirts, “sports jerseys”, etc), The SALON VISITS for manicures, pedicures, “colorings”, cuts, etc. that ALL TAKE TIME From The Home, and $$$ From the Pocket and thus FUTURE well-being of you and yours, HENCE MORE WORK, LONGER & DOING WHAT YOU DO NOT LIKE BUT “Cause You Have To” !!!!!!
I always say “Most People Are HOLLOW PEOPLE, like the TIN MAN in “Thew Wizard of Oz”; shiny on the outside BUT EMPTY on the inside”!!! Wearing $ Million clothes, “stuff”, STILL GIVES or FILLS NOTHING INSIDE !
Do you even “Know your Spouse”? Probably NOT!!!!! WHY ??????? You should! You “think you do”! BUT You Do NOT — Heck, you think being “out and about to parties and clubs or vacations” really gives in-depth time and QUALITY of YOU to getting to know, sharing, and making yourself “part of that person’s inner soul”?????? I think it is EVERYTHING , Yet most have no clue here either!
Do you “think about that hot lady or man” BUT do not know how to please your real lover- your spouse? (many people have NEVER even seen their spouse WITHOUT Makeup!!!!!! You Know Your Spouse??? You Don’t Even Know hat They Look Like !!!!!!!!
—— Getting back to “WHY” directly —- Why Do You NEED That Car, boat, vacation, etc.? —- I say this : If your Life is SO BAD you MUST Get Away, Have The Fancy Vehicle, Get Away THEN Your Emotional, Mental SELF is Nothing more than a MESS or Worse! —- You NEED OTHERS APPROVAL To “Feel Good About Yourself” —- You Are The TIN MAN – EMPTY INSIDE and your family is likely THE SAME — A MESS REACHING and SEARCHING “For Stuff” & For OTHERS “To Fix Your EMPTINESS, Lack of Self esteem, and Insecurities !!!
No “Stuff” or No Other Person or THING CAN FIX YOU (or MAKE YOU ANYTHING). It is All About Slowly , gradually, learning and discovering things about yourself, facing your fears, DARING TO Think Rather Than “Be A ROBOT”, who just “Reacts To Stimuli”! You Can PLAN or CONTROL NOTHING In Your Life as EVERYTHING and EVERYONE AROUND You, Controls YOU !!!!!!
Yes, If you DARED To BEGIN To Ask “WHY” each and every time, YOU Would IMMEDIATELY BEGIN To FIX YOURSELF, Guide “through both ACTIONS , and Not Just Empty Words” Others, who in turn Learn, Grow and FREE Themselves FOREVER From
“Doing The WRONG THING, For The WRONG REASON” —- You would cease Much You Now Do & Discover What You Really Are, Want, Need & Hence; Wealth, Health & Happiness Would Become YOU.
You Would Do “What Is Right”, Rather Then ‘What Most Do”!!!!! You Would “Begin To SEE, What Few Ever Are Healthy and Secure Enough To Dare To SEE — And That Is AMAZING —- You must trust me on that point —– BUT I GUARANTEE YOU WILL ACHIEVE WONDERMENT IN ALL YOU DO!
Your Life & Your Family’s LIFE Will Become Forever AMAZING — all because you BEGAN to ASK “WHY” About Everything !!!!!!
——- Ask me any time for more guidance on this and more. To us, it is better than watching the first steps a baby takes. or the wedding, or the birth of a child, or the first car, the first kiss, the first lemon pie, or ice cream. It is better than “heaven”! —- It gives us joy and you then can help joy grow forever more!